When I was five years old, my world turned upside down.
Finding out I wasn’t going to be an only child anymore was a memorable experience. My parents sat me down and explained how different things were going to be with a new baby in the house. But that wasn’t before they got me a doll and said it was from my sister. And it wasn’t just any old doll.
It was a pink Power Ranger action figure (with moveable limbs). Any girl born between 1989 and 1992 will understand why that doll was so cool. It was a win-win situation for me. I got a doll and a friend at the same time.
Growing up, my little sister was my mini-me. She thought everything I did was so cool. Honestly, it was kind of was nice having someone look up to me. We would make dance videos together, ride four-wheelers, go fishing and hang out with our dog, Cocoa. She might have been five years younger, but overall she was a pretty cool kid. For the majority of my life, I’d say I got along with my sister pretty well.
But when I went to college, things changed a lot. I remember coming home freshman year only to find all my stuff shoved into my sister’s room. And of course, I was the bad guy for making such a big deal about it. And so would begin a four-year battle between me and my sister.
When it rains, it pours in the James house. When sisters fight, feelings are hurt. It wasn’t until recently I made amends with Ali. I just didn’t care anymore. Nothing I said would change her opinion. I don’t remember what it was like to be an angry teenager, and I don’t want to relate to her. I’ve come to the conclusion that some things are better left alone.
I wish I had some heartwarming article about my sister coming to visit for Sibs N’ Kids weekend, but I don’t. My parents said she’s too young. This column might be a little dry, but not everyone has an awesome relationship with their sibling. I wish I did, but I can only be honest. For those of you fortunate enough to have someone visiting you this weekend, be thankful. My mom always says, “When your father and I are gone, you and your sister will only have each other.” Remember what your sibling means to you this special weekend.